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Monday, May 3, 2010

Wives encourage each other

I don't know what happened but somewhere we started to compete with each other. We tear each other apart instead of edifying one another.
Some work. Some don't. Some have to. Some of us are naturally little Betty Crockers and Suzie Homemakers. There's no reason to judge one way of life above another. There's no reason to have harsh words. How could someone possibly be offended that as a wife and as a woman we will do whatever we have to do.
I have a ton of respect for the working wife!! I honestly can't fathom how she does it. But I also have a ton of respect for the stay at home wife.
It's irrational to me that people fight over such petty things. Things which quite honestly, are not their place to judge. I'm not a 50's woman, waiting hand and foot on my husband. I do not oblige his every whim. I'm a modern woman, capable of thinking independently and making my own decisions.
On the other hand I'm not a driven, corporate woman. I'm somewhere in the middle.
Here are some rules to apply if you for some reason are offended by the lifestyle of another wife......
1. Shrug it off. To each their own, right.
2. Mind your manners. If you don't have something polite to say, don't say nothin at all.
3. Sit on your hands. Especially if you are on the computer. No need to dawn on your dragon Internet personality and go to town.
4. Remember, even though we do it differently, we all have the same goal.
Above all, I just thank God for how different he made us. We were all wonderfully and fearfully created. With tools planted in
Our hearts and our minds to fulfill our own destiny's, which were also created wonderfully. Live your life with passion, grace, and dignity and pass it along to others. There are plenty of speed bumps and dead ends on the road called life without the mud slinging and nastiness. Lift each other up!!!



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